Contradiction 

Here are some things I hear on a daily basis, But I want to say something on that. Maybe a little opposite. Just personal opinions or mid night thoughts. 

#1. Actions speak louder than words.
 

Okay maybe. But. Nothing is louder than words. Whether it’d be in any situation to any individual. From a baby’s birth till death. A word surely means more than any action. A lover’s sweet words do have a huge meaning, sometimes actions fall weak in front of words. A father’s assuring words that everything will be okay, means a lot. Even though his pockets are empty and his stomach emptier. An ill person’s will power to be perfectly fine totally reflects on his choice of his words than actions. 


#2. Dont judge from the cover. (Book/Person)

If I see a perfectly fine and healthy nude man/woman walking down the street at 2am, I’ll surely judge him/her. If I see a woman criticising her children infront of others, I’ll surely judge her. A torn and dirty book? Its old and unhygenic. Why pick it up? 

#3. Be Real. 

Not necessarily. Be wise. If I dont like a person in a group of 5, Just to avoid drama, I’ll talk to him/her the same way I talk to latter. I love to be in pyjamas, a bun and a bare face, but I am going to put that 5kg dress and 4kg makeup if required. I dont like some things which others do, and if I am among them, I dont mind pretending to like it and talk about it. Better than being left out. 

#4. You cant get over your first(s)

You can. Even if it was amazing. Try not thinking about it or do it again, more amazingly. 

#5. Happiness is more important than Money

One day, If I am homeless, jobless, broke and starving. Definitely, a degree with no scope isnt going to fetch me anything. Money is important. Happiness can be acheived even after earning enough. EARN ENOUGH TO HAVE LUXURY.

#6. Numerically list down your priorities

Family is definitely the most important priority. But, career, job, lover, friend. All hold the #1 place. The only thing that will change your resposibility towards them is the situation you are in. At some point, friend will be more important than a lover Etc. 

#7. Size doesnt matter

It does. 

Now, many of you might disagree with my words, but as said before, its my own personal opinion which I felt like penning it down. 

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Not Always, But Sometimes. 

Its not always the moon light which brings out the deepness of thoughts. 

Its not always the rain which expresses a deep emotion. 

Not always sunset with one loved person,

Not always night drives. 

Sometimes,

Its the citylights from a height and cool breeze. 

Sunrise with the whole family.

The not so quiet car ride and curved roads.

Early morning breakfast and a hot cup of tea.
As I sip my cocktail in the morning and read the newsfeed of various sites,

Makes me wonder of 10years from now. 

No, not my past. 

Its not always the past. 

I am talking about my future.
Will I be a fat person diseased with obesity?

Or an overly nutritious person with almost a flat belly?

Will I be still writing down my thoughts?

Or I’ll be too busy to be friends with my pen and book?

Will I still be a short tempered person?

Or would I have learnt the art of keeping my thoughts shut?

Will I be someone who would wait the whole week just for a day off?

Or someone whose life will be too sorted to wait for weekend? 

Will there be someone who’d wait everyday for some quality time with me or someone who is too busy to even remember my birthday? 

Or maybe just single?

Will I be around the little half’s of me and half of the person I love?

Or alone and still doing some reckless deed in my sweats ?

Will I still be breathing or perhaps just in the prayers of people who adored me?
If it’s not always the past,

Why Future?

Why not present?
As these never ending thoughts eat up my head, 

I head towards a day, A normal day struggling with the confusion of writing 2016 or 2017.

Why wait for 01.01.20xx for a fresh start?

Doesn’t sound simple,

But pop a rocher and the very next minute can be your fresh start. 

Stop sulking. 

Smile. 

The dirt between your teeth looks as nice as the scar on the moon, I swear.